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Just to show that I am not alone in having a love affair with shoes,
here are a few articles that have been sent to me that would suggest
that their are many others that feel the same as I when it comes to the
subject of footwear.

This first article was sent to me by
my sister CAT. She also sent it to our older sister Samantha, who is
in total denial about the subject ! However, I should point out the fact
that on Samantha's web site she has a link to the "Classic Pumps" web site, and knows
the owner on a first name basis!
The Sole of the Shoe
Shopper
From stilettos to
sling backs, women love their footwear
Leigh Grogan / Sacramento Bee
November 30, 2005
One should never underestimate the deep bond between a woman and her
footwear.
As a fairy-tale feminist, Cinderella was always a step ahead -- no glass
ceilings for her, just a pair of dainty, breakable slip-ons.
Sure, she snagged a prince and a palace. But her transformation from a
girl of servitude into a woman of strength is the real lesson. Or so
author Susan Reynolds believes.
Where Cinderella's shoes were a gift from her fairy godmother, in real
life, women in the United States spent close to $20 billion on shoes
last year. Female footwear fanatics filled their closets with everything
from $16.99 Highlights from Payless to $900 Christian Louboutin
platforms from Paris.
Cinderella, Reynolds says, holds the answer as to why the appeal is so
strong.
"Cinderella is one of those archetypal images you can't forget. She
appears in more than 700 cultures dating back to the ninth century in
China," she says. "Her shoes play such a big part in the story
because they're a symbol of her realizing who she is."
If you change your shoes, can you really change your attitude, your
personality? Reynolds believes you can so much that she wrote a book on
the subject. "Change Your Shoes, Change Your Life" (Polka Dot
Press, $14.95) illustrates how shoes can be potent symbols of a woman's
stability, pizzazz, sexiness and, yes, even her power.
In real life, Cinderella's modern-day sole mates are women who are truly
enamored by shoes.
Alison Rodney, an attorney from Birmingham, frequents her favorite Royal
Oak shoe store called Sole Sisters or a department store shoe aisle
almost weekly. She explains her shoe fixation in one phrase: They always
fit.
"They always look good," she says. "Pants might not fit
or might not look flattering, but the shoes always fit. I think that has
a lot to do with it."
The other draw, she says, is that new shoes jazz up even the most basic
outfit. That's why she owns about 100 pairs.
"I go for what I think looks good and what's fun and unique,"
says Rodney, 35. "I have some that are expensive, and some from
DSW."
Elizabeth Scott Warren, 35, of Richmond, Va., is a little more extreme.
"I have a couple hundred pairs. And once a week, I usually get a
new pair," says Warren, who works for a technology consulting firm
and has been encouraged by friends to one day open a shoe museum.
Her most expensive pair? "They're Dolce & Gabbana open-toed
crocodile pumps, which cost me $1,200, and which don't fit," she
says.
"I wear a size 8 1/2 , and they're 10s. I stuff (the shoes) to keep
from walking out of them."
Her favorite pair? "Too tough to pick. Maybe my pink velvet sling
backs with crystals. Then again, I get butterflies when I wear my Puccis."
But can it go too far?
How do you know when your shoes are walking all over your life? What
does it mean when you feel guilty and never take the shoes out of the
box?
OK, so clinical psychologist Nicole Tobias says she's never met a person
with a shoe addiction. Tobias is director of counseling and disability
services at the Art Institute of California in San Francisco where
fashion design is a daily focus.
"Obsessive ness (about shoes) doesn't have to be a bad thing,"
she says. "If I were a person who shops for shoes often, it
wouldn't necessarily mean I had a problem."
Tobias says to determine if your own affection for all things shoe is
crossing the line, look at your whole life picture:
Is buying lots of shoes causing a problem financially?
Is there something missing in your life, and shoes are the panacea?
Is your life full and rich in other areas? Or are shoes a dominating
force?
Fifty-four percent of single women (mostly in their 30s) surveyed by
soundinvesting.org say they were likely to accumulate 30 pairs of shoes
before accumulating $30,000 in retirement savings.
Still, that may not mean women have a peculiar issue, Tobias points out.
"The thing is though, men collect things, too," Tobias says.
"It's probably something more like stamps or coins rather than
shoes, but we don't pathologize those hobbies."
Shoes in pop culture
Women's adoration of shoes permeated the recent movie "In Her
Shoes," based on Jennifer Weiner's novel. The plot revolves around
two sisters who only have their love for stilettos (and their
complicated love for each other) in common.
In the film, Toni Collette's character tells her slimmer, sexier sister
(played by Cameron Diaz) that she buys shoes when she feels blue,
because unlike the rest of her, her shoe size never changes. Plus, it's
rather impossible to feel unattractive in a pair of strappy Manolo
Blahniks.
But that shoe labels have become nouns, i.e., "Manolos" and
"Jimmy Choos," must be credited to shoe-obsessed TV characters
such as Carrie Bradshaw of "Sex and the City."
Bill Boettge, president of the National Shoe Retailers Association in
Columbia, Md., says TV shows in particular have had a tremendous
influence on women's shoe-buying habits.
"Wearing sexy shoes made a comeback after a decade (1990s) of
casual styles," he says, "because women had had enough of
comfort."
Boettge points to MTV as another major influence in shoe trends, with a
strong impact on younger (teens and 20-something) shoppers.
"With shoes, when a woman sees what she wants, she'll do whatever
she has to," he says.
The NPD Group, which tracks consumer spending, confirms women are
spending more on fashionable footwear rather than sensible shoes. For
example, sales of stiletto and kitten-heel shoes were up 18 percent and
9 percent, respectively, last year over plain old block-heeled shoes.
Not only did "Sex and the City" expand the shoe horizon for
the average woman, it bolstered the careers of some of the world's best
shoe designers. Their sales took off because somehow owning the shoes
was more important than the fit, the comfort or the price tag.
"'I don't give a damn about the cost' is
basically what women were saying," says Brandin Baron, also on the
faculty at the Art Institute of California. "On that show, shoes
were equated with a better way of life, with optimism, with
success."
Carrie Bradshaw and her TV shoe collection transcend traditional fashion
roles. "But I don't know how realistic that fashion lifestyle
is," Baron adds.

"From the Daily
Review," compliments of Stacie Ku
Sole
mates
Shoes are a girl's real best friend
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THE WOMAN'S SHOE: An external covering for
the foot? Or a peek into the inner workings of her soul? Sole
mates.
One thing is certain. American women spent $17 billion on fashion
footwear between October 2004 and October 2005, according to
retail and consumer-information firm NPD Group.
Now, the NPD Group didn't emphasize that
shocking stat with capital letters. But if it had, it would have
looked like this: 17 BILLION DOLLARS.
That's the amount of Bulgaria's foreign
debt. It's the amount China will spend on six new hydroelectric
power plants on the Yangtze River. It's the price New York City is
expected to pay if it ever resurrects the Second Avenue subway, a
pipe dream that's been in the offing since 1920.
So. The woman's shoe. External foot
covering? Or unhealthy obsession?
"Definitely there's a level of
obsession there, for sure," says Chris Silverman, 35, who
owns 22 Shoes in Oakland's Rockridge neighborhood along with his
wife, Alexandra. "It's just one of those things. Some people
stress about finding the perfect-fitting jean. They want their
butt to look a certain way. It's the same way, but worse, with
shoes. Women will search the ends of the earth for a pointy toe
and a kitten heel with a little pink in it. It's an endless quest
for the perfect shoe."
Shoes, shoes, everywhere
There's no denying the shoe's place in
popular culture. They inspire film, most recently in the Cameron
Diaz and Toni Collette vehicle, "In Her Shoes."
They inspire television, most memorably when
Sarah Jessica Parker cooed "Hello, lover" to a pair of
Christian Louboutin sandals in a window during an episode of
"Sex and the City."
They inspire movie stars, most greenly when
Natalie Portman pointed out at the Golden Globes that her shoes
were vegan.
And they inspire world events, most
politically in 1987 when Imelda Marcos' collection of
1,220 pairs came to symbolize the
extravagance of her husband Ferdinand's rule and the couple's life
of luxury amid the overwhelming poverty of the Philippines.
"I did see shoes among many other
things in Malacanang Palace just after they fled," says Seth
Mydans, the New York Times writer who covered the fall of
Ferdinand Marcos, via e-mail. "I don't know if I saw all of
them. They were extravagant like everything else there. The word
that's used to describe her flamboyance is 'Imeldific.'"
The most recent evidence pointing to the
power of the woman's shoe comes from the book-turned-film
"The Devil Wears Prada," which is currently in
production and stars Anne Hathaway and Meryl Streep. The movie
poster features a solitary red stiletto with the three tines of a
pitchfork as the heel.
No doubt about it, shoes sell.
"The thing about shoes that's so
captivating is that they're your one connection to the ground.
They're a blend of form and function. They're a sculptural piece
of art, and yet, you wear them," says Meghan Cleary, author
of the newly published "The Perfect Fit: What Your Shoes Say
About You" (Chronicle Books; $12.95). "Shoes can define
your mood, your look, how people perceive you."
Overwhelmingly, the shoe obsession is a
women's thing. Though Cleary thinks "men are sort of secretly
obsessed with shoes," it's undeniable that shoes — whether
they be slides, mules, kitten heels, pumps, or even sneakers —
stir a passion in women.
"Men can be into shoes, but they're
more linear in their obsession," says Cleary. "They
might have two or three they obsess over while women might have
your stiletto, your sandal, your beach sandal. It goes by mood.
The passion level can be the same, but it's manifested
differently."
The psychology behind women and their shoes
is no joke. Honest-to-goodness cerebral thinkers have written
books on the subject, like Susan B. Kaiser, who penned "The
Social Psychology of Clothing." "Shoes," writes
Kaiser, "embody the intersections among gender, class,
sexuality, ethnicity, race, age, and the multiple joys, sorrows,
ambivalences and anxieties of everyday life."
If that's too cerebral, then subscribe to
the Cleary theory: "If you're in a really bad mood and need
to change it around, then you might pick your red stilettos
instead of your come-kick-me clogs. Feet themselves encompass so
many nerve endings that resonate throughout the body, that how you
feel in them can really determine how you feel."
Stats don't lie
Research backs Cleary's
A survey commissioned by Mervyn's department
store on women's shoe shopping habits revealed that 58 percent
feel that wearing a particular pair of shoes actually boosts their
self-esteem.
And just as Ponce de Leon searched endlessly
for the Fountain of Youth, women search endlessly for the Shoe of
Esteem. At least, that's one explanation for why 40 percent of
women buy three to five new pairs of shoes a year and more than
one in four buy at least six pairs.
"How many pairs did I buy in the last
year? Let's see," says Chanda Brewer of Oakland, a shoe
dilettante. "One... two... three... four... um, 12?"
Brewer, 33, like many women, is attracted to
shoes for three reasons: First, the foot doesn't have a bad day.
If a woman's foot is a size 81/2 on one day, she'll still be an
81/2 on a day where maybe her favorite jeans feel a size too
small. Second, the shoe shopping mirror doesn't show the entire
body. And third, shoe shopping is just plain easy.
"It's a quicker purchase," says
Brewer, who has 41 pairs that she wears regularly. "Unlike
going to Nordstrom or something, I don't even have to talk to a
sales person. They either fit or they don't. Whereas with clothes
shopping, and the whole process of gathering them and putting them
on, lots of times the clothes will look good on the rack, but not
on.
Hey, babe, what's your shoe?
While the psychology behind women's love of
shoes has been discussed over the years, what's been probed less
thoroughly is what those shoes actually say about women. Though
Cleary's book is as guilty a pleasure as a knee-high boot with a
low heel, there's actually quite a keen insight to the different
profiles of shoe wearers the author describes.
Calling the shoe's premise "shoestrology,"
Cleary breaks down women's personalities into three basic
categories: Down-To-Earth, On-the-Go and Towering Heights.
Beneath those umbrellas are 30 specific shoe
types, ranging from flip-flop girl to pointy toe skimmer girl to
clunky chunky-heel loafer girl to, of course, stiletto girl. Each
chapter has an overview of the girl — flip-flop girl is
energetic, tanned and loyal, among other things, while designer
bowling shoe girl is "scrappy and resourceful and roots for
the underdog." Filling out the chapters are career and
wardrobe advice and how each different shoe personality can invoke
her "inner stiletto."
You really can find out more about yourself
through your shoes," says Cleary, who's a half-ballet flat
girl and half-stiletto girl. "Everyone is shocked at how
accurate I am."
While shoes can say a lot about a person,
sometimes what they say isn't necessarily a good thing. And
sometimes, shoes get women in trouble.
Brewer, the Oakland woman with 41 pairs of
shoes, says her shoe buying habits have caused arguments in the
household.
"My husband does the finances and he
looks online at our account — sometimes he knows I spent money
before I even get home. It's a little scary," says Brewer.
"He thinks I have a ridiculous amount of shoes. I'm trying to
tell him that if you were to going to poll all different economic
backgrounds, I'd be on the low end. He seems to think I'm on the
high end. He just thinks it's outrageous."
The woman with the lock on outrageous,
though, is Mrs. Marcos. Of the 1,220 pairs of shoes that were
confiscated from Malacanang Palace, 220 are on display in a shoe
museum inaugurated in 2001 by the sole diva herself.
Even Marcos says those shoes say a lot about
her — or don't say, as the case may be.
"The shoes are my best defense,"
Marcos explained in an interview after her shoe display opened,
"because when they went to my closet to look for skeletons,
they found no skeletons. They found shoes."
You can e-mail Candace Murphy at cmurphy@angnewspapers.com
or call (925) 416-4814.
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Stilt Walking
Cathy Horyn, NY Times - April 13, 2006
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This was going to be great, I told myself. I
was going to march into Michael's on West 55th Street, wearing the
highest heels to come out of Paris, Lanvin's peep-toe stilettos
with five-and-a-half-inch cone heels and a two-inch platform, and
they were all going to look up from their Cobb salads with
demiportions of Roquefort and well, it was going to be great.
Even for someone who is used to wearing stilettos and monster
platforms, the shoes for spring present a special challenge. You
just can't escape the fact that they are taller, more outrageous,
involving a great deal more design and expense but also, it must
be said, a great many more opportunities to humiliate yourself.
Who pictures herself on a gurney? And how do you explain it?
"It's not like you broke your leg skiing in St. Moritz,"
Candy Pratts Price, the executive fashion director of Style.com,
said the other night. "That's a good story. But 'I fell off
my platforms'?" Ms. Price smirked.
The desire to be taller, amazonian, seems to
fit with a society that likes things pumped up lips and S.U.V.'s,
for example but that is only a conjecture. A lot of women, in
truth, don't need a McLuhan-like explanation of why they want the
new shoes.
Lisa Anastasia Reisman, who is blond and tan
and from Naples, Fla., was in Barneys on Saturday, shopping with
girlfriends. She had on a pair of jeans and an aqua sweater with
black peace symbols on it. She strapped on a pair of five-inch
Dolce & Gabbana platforms with little flowers embroidered on
the sides and stood up.
"Now I'm tall," Ms. Reisman, who
is 5-foot-3, said as she set off in the direction of the Lanvin
display.
Then there is Esther Chetrit, a mother of
five, ages 6 to 17, of Manhattan. Last Thursday Ms. Chetrit was at
Bergdorf Goodman. She had already been to Saks Fifth Avenue, where
she bought a pair of Yves Saint Laurent heels "the bondage
ones," she said and now she was on the plumped cushions at
Bergdorf, in her jeans and bare feet, looking down at a pair of
python and cork platforms from Oscar de la Renta and another
style, from Azzedine Ala a, with black patent leather straps and a
curving raffia-covered heel.
"I'm only looking for platforms
now," Ms. Chetrit said. "I feel much more balanced in
them." She studied a pair of clubhouse green Gucci shoes with
a stiletto heel and a one-inch platform. Besides, she added,
"I need to be taller than my kids when I yell at them."
She shrugged. "I have big kids."
And how tall is she? Ms. Chetrit gave one of
those great deadpan New York looks. "I don't know
anymore," she said.
Store executives and sales clerks, as well
as outfits like the NPD Group, which tracks clothing and accessory
sales, say that more women are buying higher heels this spring.
Perilous or not, some of the highest shoes quickly sold out, the
salesmen at Barneys and Bergdorf say. And before Ms. Chetrit left
she put her name on a reorder list for the Ala as. (They sell for
$795.)
Novelty styles, like Balenciaga's towering
silver gladiator stilettos, which require the control of a
ballerina, are among the hardest to find. And the shoes will get
even bigger for fall. Balenciaga's suede platforms top seven
inches.
Three weeks ago Kimberly Oser, a public
relations executive at Barneys, received a call from a saleswoman
at the store, alerting her to a new shipment of Christian
Louboutin platforms called Miss Marple. "When I got there,
five women were buzzing around the same pair," said Ms. Oser,
who bought the shoes, for $710. Later she saw the same style on
eBay for $1,500.
Mr. Louboutin said the style, among his
tallest, sold out in Paris. "And you don't typically see
French women in shoes like that," he said, speculating that
such shoes have touched off some sort of tribal feeling among
women. "They don't want to be the smallest member of their
group," he said.
When I was at Barneys, with my peep-toe
Lanvins (which the store expects to have next week, ladies), I
took one off and placed it on a table. People came by and admired
it as if it were a piece of Zulu sculpture. One guy started to
grab it to show the woman he was with.
Hey!
Anyway, as I was saying, I had this idea to
wear the Lanvins to lunch at Michael's. The place would be jammed.
As I would find out in a few minutes, Joan Rivers was there. So
were Anna Wintour, Ralph Lauren and Tina Brown.
At Avenue of the Americas and 55th Street I
got out of a taxi. Taking the R train there was out of the
question: not only are the heels high and slanted, but they also
taper to a point the size of a nailhead. I had thought to take
along a pair of ballet flats, which many bright women in New York
on their way to a date or a party have no trouble rationalizing.
It's like having a limousine without the expense and bother.
I mounted the curb. Now six feet tall, I
suddenly felt less invincible than wretchedly vulnerable, to gross
stares and gusts of wind. Michael's, barely half a block away,
seemed a journey of several miles.
I clumped toward the big "Love"
sculpture. I thought: "This won't do. Lunch will be over by
the time I get there." Looking around oh, what was the point!
I ducked behind a pillar and put on my ballet flats. Then I
hurried on to Michael's, bolting past Ms. Wintour and the noontime
crowd.
In other circumstances, like walking on the
wall-to-wall at the office or at a party where I mostly stood, the
Lanvins were actually comfortable, and I enjoyed my new height and
the giddy looks of fright on the men in the office.
In reality you don't wear a pair of shoes
like that if you carry a book bag and share trains with commuters.
You invite looks of pity. Shoes like that serve a different
purpose: seduction, fun, making men bark.
A friend of mine compared their glamorous
constraint to wearing a tight Hedi Slimane suit to a party.
"All you can do is lean at the bar," she said. "And
make sure your drink comes with a straw."

Compliments of Lilly Williams

Cathy Newman, National Geographic, September
2006, "The Joy of Shoes."
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High Heel
Manolo Blahnik, silk brocade
with silver chinchilla and velvet ribbon, 2005
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Platform
Shoe
Vivienne Westwood, mock
crocodile, 12-inch-high (30 centimeters) blue "staggerer"
with satin ribbon, 1993
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Improve Sex Life By Wearing High Heels
Heel Appeal!
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Call it heel appeal. Women who wear high heels may give their
sex life a boost, and it has nothing to do with the effect these
sexy shoes have on men and their libido.
Italian urologist Dr. Maria Cerruto of the University of Verona
has concluded that walking in higher heels--and they don't have to
be stilettos--gives a workout to the pelvic floor muscles, the
pleasure muscles that are linked to orgasm.
This may be the first scientific study to show high heels are
good for a woman's health. Previous research has shown such shoes
can give women everything from stress fractures to schizophrenia,
not to mention corns and sore feet.
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The BBC News and London's Daily Mail report that Cerruto's
study of 66 women under age 50 found that those who held their
foot at a 15-degree angle to the ground, which is the same effect
as a two-inch heel, had posture that was just as good as those who
wore flat shoes. But these women also showed less electrical
activity in their pelvic muscles, which indicates those muscles
were at an optimum position. Cerruto maintains this could improve
the strength and ability of the pelvic muscles to contract. These
muscles assist sexual performance and satisfaction, as well as
provide vital support to the pelvic organs, which include the
bladder, bowels and uterus.
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Footwear -- Bandolino
Shoes
Pregnancy and childbirth, as well as aging, can weaken the pelvic
muscles. Exercises help, but Cerruto theorizes that wearing
two-inch high heels may be enough to eliminate the need for those
exercises. "Women often have difficulty in carrying out the
right exercises for the pelvic zone and wearing heels could be the
solution," she told the BBC. "Like many women, I like
high-heeled shoes. It's good to know they have potential health
benefits."
But moderation counts! Shoe designer Manolo
Blahnik told The Daily Mail, "I think there's a limit,
though. Anything over four-and-a-half inches is just too much. You
can't walk properly; it's no longer elegant."
The study was published as a letter in the journal European
Urology.
--From the Editors at Netscape

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